Chemistry not dating
"Or, you may click with someone who is completely different that what you've always wanted, and forget about your list in a flash...so complex and individualized that it is practically impossible to quantify.
Instant chemistry, while nice to have, is overrated. She also co-hosts the Sex Love Chat Podcast and Twitter chat discussing current topics about sex and love.
More than love, you also feel respect, admiration, and like each other a lot.
At a deeper level, chemistry in relationships means that both yours and your partner's unconscious needs are met - either as a team, or through each other's strengths.
But beyond that, you want to feel the initial love sparks and remain deeply in love with your partner, true?
Well, that's what chemistry in relationships is all about. You may have a list of qualities she should possess, such as beauty, honesty, loyalty, sense of humor, warmth, intelligence, and so on. "She's really a nice person, but there's just no chemistry! You see, having chemistry with your partner means that you have a language of your own.
Some people just have that charisma and energy about them and this impacts the effect they have on other people. I have met only a few people who I’ve had instant chemistry with and I thought for sure that they would be a long term item in my life, but, as it happened, chemistry wasn’t enough. The opposite is true, I’ve had some great relationships with people I didn’t feel instant fireworks chemistry with but there was something there I wanted to pursue.