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Lie #1: A Christian man must be God’s best choice of a mate for me.
First of all, just because a man calls himself a Christian doesn’t mean a thing about his spiritual condition. What really shows a man’s faith is —not trying to get you into bed until you are both wearing a ring; initiating his own personal relationship with God and encouraging yours as well; and especially holding his feelings back in the relationship to allow God to lead. Don’t trust them, especially when it comes to spiritual matters.
I am not talking about normal struggles or mistakes, but habit pattern sins or dysfunctions that control their lives and that they are not open and contrite about.
If a man is teachable, he will humbly listen to God and to his future wife when making decisions. Lie #4: I really know him after spending so much time talking to him.
Lie #3: I can overlook a few character problems (a.k.a. If a man has glaring character defects, it is likely that he is not teachable.
Teachability is the number one character trait you should look for in a potential mate.
Sex before marriage is a sin and if a guy is pressuring, he doesn’t care about what God thinks and he doesn’t care about you either.
Pressure for sex from a “Christian man” should be the number one indicator of a dishonest man with underlying bad intentions and hidden motives. Satan, the master liar and counterfeiter, is cooking up coincidences to get you off track, so beware! He wants to handicap your services for the Kingdom by getting you to settle for a miserable and empty marriage.After calling and text messaging constantly for the last two months, we decided to take it the next level—so we met half way last weekend. If anyone knew the lies women tell themselves to justify getting into bad relationships that led to bad marriages, it was me.